Whats right?

Recently this thought striked the walls of my mind as one of my friends said about a person that "he is saying right". Now my frnd might have said it in all good faith and with utmost sincerity but how one decides the act/statement is right or wrong? May be what is right for one is wrong for other. I think it all depends on person's upbringing. What ever the person sees/is made to see in his/her childhood leads to the formation of a set of ideals/values and based on these one decides whether the act is good or bad. But, who is there to say tat the set of ideals/values is right or wrong? I think this is wat leads to serious misunderstanding between the ppl. Many a time two persons dont get along just becoz both of them are idealist about their set of values and many a time things get going just becoz one of them is rather careless abt the values. But, the other person who is so sincere about the values care whether the other person is sincere about the values or not. I think no! The ethical person is just interested in making a point and abiding by his/her principles giving a damn about other's views.
But can there be any solution to the situation where there are two idealists? I think one needs to put on others shoes, other's thoughts and then think about one's views and then only one can justify. But, how can this be done? To put it honestly it is almost impossible bcoz the whole thinking process of any person is governed by the whole lot of years one has lived till then.
I think one should put forward one's point, should try to understand other's point and then one should put forward the points based on which they should judge the issue. I think that will be far more fairer than any other discussion.
I think the post is going a bit wary but still u ppl may understand sth out of it..............

TESTING GOES ON

THE PERSONALITY TEST
RESULTS:::: Robot
You are 57% Rational, 14% Extroverted, 42% Brutal, and 42% Arrogant.

You are the Robot! You are characterized by your rationality. In fact, this is really ALL you are characterized by. Like a cold, heartless machine, you are so logical and unemotional that you scarcely seem human. For instance, you are very humble and don't bother thinking of your own interests, you are very gentle and lack emotion, and you are also very introverted and introspective. You may have noticed that these traits are just as applicable to your laptop as they are to a human being. In short, your personality defect is that you don't really HAVE a personality. You are one of those annoying, super-logical people that never gets upset or flustered. Unless, of course, you short circuit.

To put it less negatively:
1. You are more RATIONAL than intuitive.
2. You are more INTROVERTED than extroverted.
3. You are more GENTLE than brutal.
4. You are more HUMBLE than arrogant.