Many a times u hear a lot of things frm other ppl, read a hell lot of things. But you dont tend to believe all these. U feel a sense of suspicion or may even turn this down at all. But, the time u hear sth which is as per ur feeling or ur belief, u immediately tend to believe the so called "Fact". Even u may have a doubt deep within but u tend to kill this doubt urself and just go ahead and grab the thing in ur favour.

This thing is not only in personal perspective, even the biggest rumours are bcoz of this only. Just watch the ppl believe all sorts of nonsense when the scenario is tense within a locality and there is a chance of riots. In any place where ppl tend to have fear/doubt, there are rumours...be it stock market, be it the breeding ground for riots or be it a love story .....

Well it seems I have started to write quite boring things and issues......
I recently went to a marriage and met someone whom I think am seeing after probably 7-7.5 yrs ( I m specifically using "seeing" as prior to 7.5 yrs also, I think I dont remember talking to her...wat a pity aint it? :D) ..I dont even know whether the gal recognised me or not.....probably a bit when I wished her...
Well as always the bride and the groom were looking pretty....
After the dinner and all tat, when I returned back I thought why is it tat during marriage the Two most important ppl are not their self. Most of the time they keep their mouth shut ....especially the bride...the groom may try to start feeling comfortable among the known ones but the bride it seems feels really out of the place ....may be she is asked to keep quiet by the family ppl or may be sth else....

weird ......the usual me

when u r bound to act in a particular way, it seems u always tend to act tat way......whether it hurts u or not is subsidiary. Frnds tend to take care of you so much that they see that you are hurting yourself but you can take care of urself even after hurting the self. It seems ppl need to understand tat ppl tend to outgrow their age their image as and when the need arrives. May be the person is not experienced enough to act in a rational way but sometime acting rational is nothing more than being inhuman.

Can anybdy feel the pleasure after hurting somebdy? I say y not. If the person has sufficiently compelling reason to hurt the person, then the pain generated will be an amusement also.

What will you do if you plant a small tree right in front of your door and one day it grows so big that it starts blocking your door and becomes threatening for your home? Will you make adjustment for the plant which u nourished with care or will you bring it down in favour of your home?

Sometime u r party to some small incidents which make u think greatly. An output of such an instance............"Itna bhi dosti mat nibhao ki jeena mushkil ho jaye" (Don't be so bounded to the friendship that it becomes life threatening).

Breaking into the silence

sometimes u feel as if u r not wanted anymore......in some places among some ppl
U feel tat things which were so close to u once didn't need u anymore. It seems each and everything wants u out. U tend to fear things as u may make them want more to throw you away. sometimes u read the signs on the face tat ppl and irritated and annoyed at you and you feel like keeping quiet .... quiet as in the middle of night in middle of the graveyard... u just sit there and keep on sitting watching the graves

So rahe Ho?

"So rahe Ho?' ............. A line u may hav heard many times and sometimes u wonder y the fuck somebody is saying that or u r leaving and ppl will say "ja rahe ho?" or u r coming into the home and hear " aa gaye?"
U r watching cricket and hear "Match dekh rahe ho?"
or u r eating sth which is easily visible to others and they will ask "Kya kha rahe ho?"

There are a lot more.......

sometime I wonder y ppl say so....is it out of curiosity, affection, or wat?

well world is like tat only I believe.

At times, you see some old relative of urs seriously ill and relatives paying visits....now the ladies in the family will show special concern towards these scenarios.....I don't know whether the ladies weep daily on seeing the old relative or not but as soon as the person passes away, the ladies will start a cry.........................I wonder y? Is it just bcoz of tradition or wat? Was this something unexpected? Is it neccessary to show to the world tat u r weeping...................ufffffff.... sometimes I feel a bit pissed off ..........don't know y but its like tat only.....its also true tat I sometime njoi these occasions giving all sorts of absurd answers to these absurd questions...:-p

Pune trip

To be precise I went to pune on 29th and returned back on 3rd Oct. Met frnds and had a jolly gud time over there.....wahan bakchodi kar ke maza aa gaya......sahich bola dost log delhi main nautanki karne ka ab mere ko mauka hi nahi mil pata hai.....

ya same pune which is now gripped with brangelina fever. Jhakkas Iranian log dikhte hain wahan.....as per frnds they come there to study.....bole to pune main gyan darshan........poore india main khali pune hi gyan ke layak mila Iran walon ko?????

khair wahan mast incident dekhne ko mila aur main achanak socha ki what might be going on in the heads of the characters involved in the incident......well first the incident......so we visited the singhad fort and had a detailed visit over there (saalon ne khoob ghoomaya) and then we sat at one place to have lunch.....chatai laga ke mast chach aur dahi aur bajre ki rotti aur kanda bhaja.......jhakkas. Simultaneously we were audience to an incident involving two love-birds njoing there togetherness in open in full public view. Well there closeness got so close that the lady owner of the dhaba restaurnat came and told "THIK SE BAITHO NAHI TO PAKADWA DOONGI" (Brilliant dialogue delivery and mast stage to say it).......now at this moment I thought what must be going on in the heads of the two actors of the incident::::probably both of them were njoing at that moment the pleasures of life....both feeling xcited abt it (but can this xcitement be there when u are being watched by a large num of unknown prying eyes??) ...may be both feeling to take the relation to nxt level(or may be they already have taken it to tat level) ... I guess nobody will be bold nugh in the first place to do these in public and so both feeling high on tat account and getting higher....and boom the lady delivers the dialogue and probably both feel a bit awkward........a bit ashamed or hurt or angry .........................

Many a times it so happens tat u wonder why so? Recently I met the gf of one of my frnds and as I was getting ready to leave my house to meet them, one of my frnds asked me where I was up to. I told him abt tat the gf of my frnd is here and my frnd wants me to meet her. He then promptly asked me as to why was I supposed to meet her. Don't know y but both of us thought tat the guy wanted to know abt my opinion abt his choice. The next day it really happened as the guy asked me abt my opinion regarding his gf. I really wonder as to why ppl do such things? R only guys doing these or gals also succumb to these? Probably at times ppl r not sure abt the decisions they have made in the life and want reconciliation frm others.... Anyway wat I was wondering abt is: does my opinion matter or will I disclose my personal opinion abt my frnds gf in one meeting to him even knowing tat the guy is going to marry her? Shd we really ask for an opinion frm others abt topics which are so close to one's heart (and far away frm the brain)? I mean will the guy change his opinion if I say sth adverse? Or if I praise her....how is it going to affect her? Also, how can u have an opinion in one meeting and if u have one will it really be trustworthy?

I was having a talk with one of my frnds and he told me regarding his achievements and am really pleased with it. But, don't know why sth stuck me....he said a major change has been brought in some area and tat change is attributed to him...... thinking abt it I don't know why I thought he may be part of a grp who might have done it.........there are always ways to say things....some times humble sometimes not so humble......

Recently I was having a talk with one of the frnds and we were having the discussion abt some serious issue and the guy in a usual tone said some nice words (:D) and a gal was sitting right behind my frnd....no sooner the word left the guy's mouth, the gal turned arnd and gave a nasty look............ with gals arnd u r supposed to be behaving all nice I suppose.......U need to change a lot to accomodate.....Is this the typical behaviour of our society only or is it a worldwide phenomenon?

Are employees in india getting their share?

After a long gap, ......

Well, it really is a matter of patience to put your thoughts together and put them onto the blog.

Recently, one of our colleague was asked to resign frm the company with an open threat tat he will be terminated if he doesnt put down his resignation. CAUSE: Guy asked for work!!!
U won't believe it. Nobody will ..... but the fact remains as cold as the siberia....
Well, the incident goes like....a guy frm the prestigious institute is recruited after thorough checking and after going through rigorous recruitment process. The guy joins the company and is asked to do the documentations.... the guy does it .......along way he asks for some quality work to be given to him....with a promise (which was never fulfilled) the authorities try to cajole him... the next assignment thrown his way again is documentation... the guy gets irritated and asks for work...still unwillingly he gets the work done....Once again the work he gets is the same shit and with nobody lending ears to his grievances, the guy bunks a few meetings and it gets noticed and the authorities get informed too .... a few more bunking and the authorities decide to give some gud work to him (to be completed in 2-3 weeks)and if the guy doesn't fulfill the assignments, the harsh judgement is to be decided.... however no notice gets passed to the guy...neither the work gets changed...he still is supposed to finish the documentations..... and finally within a week the authorities decide (based on wat grounds is yet to be decided) that the guy is having attitude problem and he is asked to give in the resignation or face the wrath....feeling helpless the guy puts the paper down..........

I would like to ask is it justified???? Is this the way to treat the employees??? Why the employers think themselves to be the owners of the employees? Are employees bonded labours or wat?