Is the dressing of the gals one of the causes of the rape?
If no, then what wud you like to say abt those who wear revealing clothes? What is the motive behind wearing such clothes? If the concerned persons are feeling proud in disclosing their assets then they shd also be ready to protect it. One should not blame others for eyeing the assets leading to subsequent incidents.....
Even the same goes with money. If u display it then robbers are bound to get attracted towards you and u may run into the risk of being robbed...
Anyway wats ur opinion??????
Thursday, September 29, 2005
Monday, August 22, 2005
Whats right?
Recently this thought striked the walls of my mind as one of my friends said about a person that "he is saying right". Now my frnd might have said it in all good faith and with utmost sincerity but how one decides the act/statement is right or wrong? May be what is right for one is wrong for other. I think it all depends on person's upbringing. What ever the person sees/is made to see in his/her childhood leads to the formation of a set of ideals/values and based on these one decides whether the act is good or bad. But, who is there to say tat the set of ideals/values is right or wrong? I think this is wat leads to serious misunderstanding between the ppl. Many a time two persons dont get along just becoz both of them are idealist about their set of values and many a time things get going just becoz one of them is rather careless abt the values. But, the other person who is so sincere about the values care whether the other person is sincere about the values or not. I think no! The ethical person is just interested in making a point and abiding by his/her principles giving a damn about other's views.
But can there be any solution to the situation where there are two idealists? I think one needs to put on others shoes, other's thoughts and then think about one's views and then only one can justify. But, how can this be done? To put it honestly it is almost impossible bcoz the whole thinking process of any person is governed by the whole lot of years one has lived till then.
I think one should put forward one's point, should try to understand other's point and then one should put forward the points based on which they should judge the issue. I think that will be far more fairer than any other discussion.
I think the post is going a bit wary but still u ppl may understand sth out of it..............
But can there be any solution to the situation where there are two idealists? I think one needs to put on others shoes, other's thoughts and then think about one's views and then only one can justify. But, how can this be done? To put it honestly it is almost impossible bcoz the whole thinking process of any person is governed by the whole lot of years one has lived till then.
I think one should put forward one's point, should try to understand other's point and then one should put forward the points based on which they should judge the issue. I think that will be far more fairer than any other discussion.
I think the post is going a bit wary but still u ppl may understand sth out of it..............
Wednesday, August 10, 2005
TESTING GOES ON
THE PERSONALITY TEST
RESULTS:::: Robot
You are 57% Rational, 14% Extroverted, 42% Brutal, and 42% Arrogant.
You are the Robot! You are characterized by your rationality. In fact, this is really ALL you are characterized by. Like a cold, heartless machine, you are so logical and unemotional that you scarcely seem human. For instance, you are very humble and don't bother thinking of your own interests, you are very gentle and lack emotion, and you are also very introverted and introspective. You may have noticed that these traits are just as applicable to your laptop as they are to a human being. In short, your personality defect is that you don't really HAVE a personality. You are one of those annoying, super-logical people that never gets upset or flustered. Unless, of course, you short circuit.
To put it less negatively:
1. You are more RATIONAL than intuitive.
2. You are more INTROVERTED than extroverted.
3. You are more GENTLE than brutal.
4. You are more HUMBLE than arrogant.
RESULTS:::: Robot
You are 57% Rational, 14% Extroverted, 42% Brutal, and 42% Arrogant.
You are the Robot! You are characterized by your rationality. In fact, this is really ALL you are characterized by. Like a cold, heartless machine, you are so logical and unemotional that you scarcely seem human. For instance, you are very humble and don't bother thinking of your own interests, you are very gentle and lack emotion, and you are also very introverted and introspective. You may have noticed that these traits are just as applicable to your laptop as they are to a human being. In short, your personality defect is that you don't really HAVE a personality. You are one of those annoying, super-logical people that never gets upset or flustered. Unless, of course, you short circuit.
To put it less negatively:
1. You are more RATIONAL than intuitive.
2. You are more INTROVERTED than extroverted.
3. You are more GENTLE than brutal.
4. You are more HUMBLE than arrogant.
Sunday, July 31, 2005
Saturday, July 09, 2005
Wat shd I call this?
A person's existence got lost in the wilderness of a city
as the noise gets lost into the silence of graveyard;
Now the person itself denies the existence
as the sword of executioner denies seeing the red
Is shahar ki chilla-po main ek insaan ka wajood yun gum ho gaya
mano qabristan ke sannate main lashon ki cheeekhen gum ho gayee ho
Ab yeh aalam hai ki us insan ko apne us wajood se is kadar inkar hai
mano jallad ki shamsheer ko laal rang se inkar ho......
Don't know why I wrote this but such thoughts have crept into my mind through this way or tat. Such incidents have cornered me and I have always tried to avoid these....... But these and many a things of my life and my thoughts have always led to a conclusion tat I am DEPRESSED or to say it more bluntly I am a SADDIST...........am I????? dont know...........
Well leaving aside these serious topics I wud like to share a few lighter ones:::::
Once, in my school days, the results were out for a math test and there was this fellow who got 99 out of 100.......gr8 performance and we all thought tat the person will be damn happy but in the recess we saw the person crying like anything..............reason being y not 100? how cud the teacher not give 100? Ya I know its gud to aim high and thrive for it but crying at 99......isnt it too much.............anyways we had a gr8 laugh tat day
Yaa last year I sat in the aeroplane for the first time.....well not greatly excited but ya thrilling during the take off..........I guess its a bit noisy in the planes too..........the sound of engines.........the clouds looked like pieces of big cottons........for the first time I saw different layers of clouds and the earth down looked like a big floor with shades of tiles in green and gray The buildings looked like tiny playing houses.........it was really interesting and cool
Recently I was talking to a gal (one of those rare moments) and one of my friends saw me and yelled "setting" implying tat it ma`y open up a new opening in my life----these guys are rally nutss....:p.....hey I do caught the changing xpressions on the face of the gal.... :D I guess she must have thought these guys r really ass***** ;-)
as the noise gets lost into the silence of graveyard;
Now the person itself denies the existence
as the sword of executioner denies seeing the red
Is shahar ki chilla-po main ek insaan ka wajood yun gum ho gaya
mano qabristan ke sannate main lashon ki cheeekhen gum ho gayee ho
Ab yeh aalam hai ki us insan ko apne us wajood se is kadar inkar hai
mano jallad ki shamsheer ko laal rang se inkar ho......
Don't know why I wrote this but such thoughts have crept into my mind through this way or tat. Such incidents have cornered me and I have always tried to avoid these....... But these and many a things of my life and my thoughts have always led to a conclusion tat I am DEPRESSED or to say it more bluntly I am a SADDIST...........am I????? dont know...........
Well leaving aside these serious topics I wud like to share a few lighter ones:::::
Once, in my school days, the results were out for a math test and there was this fellow who got 99 out of 100.......gr8 performance and we all thought tat the person will be damn happy but in the recess we saw the person crying like anything..............reason being y not 100? how cud the teacher not give 100? Ya I know its gud to aim high and thrive for it but crying at 99......isnt it too much.............anyways we had a gr8 laugh tat day
Yaa last year I sat in the aeroplane for the first time.....well not greatly excited but ya thrilling during the take off..........I guess its a bit noisy in the planes too..........the sound of engines.........the clouds looked like pieces of big cottons........for the first time I saw different layers of clouds and the earth down looked like a big floor with shades of tiles in green and gray The buildings looked like tiny playing houses.........it was really interesting and cool
Recently I was talking to a gal (one of those rare moments) and one of my friends saw me and yelled "setting" implying tat it ma`y open up a new opening in my life----these guys are rally nutss....:p.....hey I do caught the changing xpressions on the face of the gal.... :D I guess she must have thought these guys r really ass***** ;-)
Tuesday, June 28, 2005
Down the memory lane
Sometimes its really funny remembering the tits and bits of wat happened long time ago.......
Recently I was going through a blog of a teacher (http://akruti.blogspot.com) and it reminded me of something:
Well , I used to be one of those guys who was usually quiet in the classes and never sits at the front. As usual I was sitting at my favourite place near the window and watching outside the window but still listening to what was going on in the class and somehow the teacher noticed me watching out of the window and scolded me for it but she was taken aback when she asked me what she was teaching and getting the exact answer. Her face was really worth looking at the moment......
Its really awesome to catch the expressions when the persons are at the wrong foot.
Yesterday, I saw a gal who was by mistake or because of urgency, unaware of the surroundings scratched at some personal place in between the legs and was caught by these devil eyes.........the gal really felt some thing terrible as she looked at me.....:p
The incident reminded me of an incident where I felt very close to be beaten. Well, we were in college and I along with my friend was sitting at a restaurant near to the counter and there was this gal along with her grp paying her bills . Somehow I caught the sight of the gal scratching her backyard and indicated tat to my friend and there he was laughing at his wits with his hand pointing towards the gal....I really felt like laughing but also felt the danger of being bitten...
Seems the eyes follows the gals restlessly (I was complemented by one of my frnd as to how come I am yet to be beaten for staring so dangerously!!)
I must add tat these all incidents look so abnormal when the gal is concerned but its a bit ok when the guys are concerned...... I wud like to hear gals comments on this if anybdy happen to pass by this way........;-)
Recently I was going through a blog of a teacher (http://akruti.blogspot.com) and it reminded me of something:
Well , I used to be one of those guys who was usually quiet in the classes and never sits at the front. As usual I was sitting at my favourite place near the window and watching outside the window but still listening to what was going on in the class and somehow the teacher noticed me watching out of the window and scolded me for it but she was taken aback when she asked me what she was teaching and getting the exact answer. Her face was really worth looking at the moment......
Its really awesome to catch the expressions when the persons are at the wrong foot.
Yesterday, I saw a gal who was by mistake or because of urgency, unaware of the surroundings scratched at some personal place in between the legs and was caught by these devil eyes.........the gal really felt some thing terrible as she looked at me.....:p
The incident reminded me of an incident where I felt very close to be beaten. Well, we were in college and I along with my friend was sitting at a restaurant near to the counter and there was this gal along with her grp paying her bills . Somehow I caught the sight of the gal scratching her backyard and indicated tat to my friend and there he was laughing at his wits with his hand pointing towards the gal....I really felt like laughing but also felt the danger of being bitten...
Seems the eyes follows the gals restlessly (I was complemented by one of my frnd as to how come I am yet to be beaten for staring so dangerously!!)
I must add tat these all incidents look so abnormal when the gal is concerned but its a bit ok when the guys are concerned...... I wud like to hear gals comments on this if anybdy happen to pass by this way........;-)
Friday, June 03, 2005
Is it worth it?
It seems everybody keeps on working to earn more to make his/her life better. But, is it worth it? I know u need to earn to fill the bellies. U also need the money to live the life lavishly. But, where the hell is time to enjoy all these when you keep on working like hell? Well, when one is at the start of one's career, then what really matters is money. But, do it matters at the end of the life too? I think no. People tend to have a perspective view of what they did in their life at the end of life and they feel dissatisfied when they see that they have not done anything worth in their life. Money is everything for a large number of people in this deprived society of ours but running after it will never make this deprived society a developed society. The society needs to diversify to cater to all aspects.
But what is happening at present is people are diversifying the ways of earning money. The ways to earn has increased manifolds. U go to any department and you find newer ways of bribing to get your work done. What is even more astonishing that everybody has accepted the process as a part of life. Even then, the person who is taking the bribe will be busy giving a lecture on the present situation of bribing and he/she will be busy telling a story abt him/herself in which the person had to bribe to get even the minor things done. What a farce? Height of hypocrisy.....
What is even more astonishing tat if a person tends to follow the correct path then even his fellows would mock at him/her and will say tat he could have get the things done in a much easier manner if he/she could have gone the wrong way.
Everybody living in this society seems to be fed up with it and will always be yelling for changing the system. But, is anybody ready to come forward to make the change?? Is the yelling worth it?
Is the life worth living if you have to just keep on yelling without doing anything useful????
But what is happening at present is people are diversifying the ways of earning money. The ways to earn has increased manifolds. U go to any department and you find newer ways of bribing to get your work done. What is even more astonishing that everybody has accepted the process as a part of life. Even then, the person who is taking the bribe will be busy giving a lecture on the present situation of bribing and he/she will be busy telling a story abt him/herself in which the person had to bribe to get even the minor things done. What a farce? Height of hypocrisy.....
What is even more astonishing tat if a person tends to follow the correct path then even his fellows would mock at him/her and will say tat he could have get the things done in a much easier manner if he/she could have gone the wrong way.
Everybody living in this society seems to be fed up with it and will always be yelling for changing the system. But, is anybody ready to come forward to make the change?? Is the yelling worth it?
Is the life worth living if you have to just keep on yelling without doing anything useful????
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