Have you ever wondered as to why people(S) consider some people close(C) and some not close? Well there may be a numerous reasons. Just one of these reasons is the fact that these ppl don't confront their ideas....or may be C just hear the ideas of S and keep silent or just support these ideas....
But, someday if these C comeup with some ideas which is totally against the ideas of S then the scene changes, well not always but sometimes it surely changes.....
Many a time ppl tend to think that what ever decision or idea one has is the best for the scenario and only those who are in that scenario can only give some ideas which will be worth giving a thought. If somebody who does not belong to the scenario comes up with an idea then it is not worth just because of the fact that they are not aware of the ground realities.
Y is it tat everybdy is compared with same rules? There may be certain persons/brains which may be able to comprehend the ground realities even without actually coming across the scenarios.....There may be ppl who can live life in the 5-star suits and think of the problems of the poors who has no where to live.....May be ppl can gather different amount of information from a simple book or a simple story!!!

Mumbai - An observation

I recently moved to Mumbai - the financial capital of India. I had always wished not to come to this place for job purpose as I always percieved the city to be filled with chaos and a city not as per my taste. I don't know if the city is as per my taste or not but I think my notions abt the city has mellowed down a bit at least.

Well, I came here and had been to Pune twice till now to meet friends. The views near lonavala and Khandala from Train is hooha....its really picturesque...waterfalls, lush green mountains...wow its awesome.

An interesting feature which I saw on my both trip while coming back is the presence of pros on the Pune-Mumbai highway. Well, probably near Panvel, on my first trip, while peeping out of the window I saw a gal, coming out of the bushes and as far as I can collect in the passing glimpse, the girl was dressed in quite a manner which to me appeared as fitting for a pro.......well I mentioned the incident to a frnd and the guy told tat may be the gal was a general gal having a taste for haute couture and I am just making too many assumptions. I said ok, may be. Well the next trip put all the speculations to rest. Almost at the same place, I saw another gal dressed in skimpy clothes and talking to a man. As I had my experience of the last trip, I was deliberately looking out of the window and when I saw the gal, I kept on looking at her for a while. What I saw was quite unbelievable and I still think if I saw it correct or not. Well, the bus was passing by on its speed and the gal talking to the man was wearing a mini skirt and lo, the gal took the skirt fully up in a flash and one wonder gave way to another when as far as I cud see through these weaking eyes is tat there was nothing beneath. The bus passed by and I turned and tried to had another look but the bus was speeding and it just vanished.

It seems the business is available at large in this area. The govt may be claiming anything and everything but I can not deny wat I saw.

Wearing leather boots in India

Well, I am not talking abt the whole of India but wearing these leather high heeled boots by gorgeous ladies in and around Delhi makes really a scene to watch out for.... As far as I understand these high leather boots makes sense in cold countries and definitely on ramps... In India, I think the gals wearing these definitely make a statement, whether right or wrong, good or bad is upto the all important audience. For sure, it is not being worn to thwart the cold but I think it definitely adds to the beauty of these front row models.. just one of those illogical thoughts of mine :-))

Pretend

Ever wondered that when you think that u will never do something......circumstances change and you are forced to do the same thing...sometimes I wonder if you yourself knowingly or unknowingly change the circumstances in a way so tat u r forced to do things u didn't want to do or is it just a matter of chance........there may be ppl in world who would say that this is the power of the unseen and most powerful who is making this happen and making u realise his/her being.......
Sometimes it happen tat ppl tend to behave in a very weird manner and you think how can this be? Sometime ppl show that they are doing something because of certain reasons but the real reasons are something else.......and ppl tend to hide those reasons because of watever reasons...may be they think tat those reasons will portray them in wrong shades.... dont know if wat I am talking makes sense or not but... well say a guy says tat he doesn't like to eat in restaurants and likes eating in dhabas...likes to eat pizzaz in parties and says he doesn't like to eat outside bcoz it doesn't suit it, I doubt if this can be true. What seems to be the underlying truth is tat the guy is concerned about the cost of eating in restaurants..may be!!

Well, ppl say tat they don't expect anything frm life but sometime it so happens tat they expect a lot and to just satisfy themselves frm feeling bad or getting disheartened they tend to tell themselves tat they dont expect anything... Also, ppl may say tat they dont have any goals but it may be the truth tat they have very high goals and they fear tat they will never be able to achieve it...to hide frm this fact and to not face the defeat and the feeling of humiliation ppl tend to hide themselves under illogical notions and false pretentions....

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I am one of those who like to waste time on orkut wandering here and there....watching the scraps, photos etc etc of others.....I believe there must be a lot of ppl like me.....

Some time I wonder y do I do so? No answers to that....
I remember when I was back in my school days, I used to sit in veranda and watch ppl, trucks buses pass on the road.....dont know what I used to feel (if I felt anything)

Some ppl, I think, think that I am quite a rude and boring person....which is true to a greater extent....but cant do much about it....or probably I dont want to do anything about it...

If I look back at my life, I find so many things have happened...wide varieties.....but what are those that I really wanted to happen......there are a few.....what about the future...........dont know where will it go.....no plans....no ambitions......no aspirations.......like a log of wood caught in the flood.....

why do ppl weep? sometimes to show others....sometimes bcoz of habit......sometime to attract attention.....sometime bcoz of helplessness, a feeling of cant do anything....there may be other reasons.....

Is it better to always ask for opinions or should you go ahead with your thoughts? well, to begin with you need some others to guide you in forming opinions...oncce reached tat level, u should start forming your opinions and critically review it and get some second thoughts about your views.....maybe you will get to refine your ideas....but this will eventually lead you to a place where others will consult you for their problems as you will have a clear understanding and a critique view towards taking decisions....

low rise waists

Recently I was sitting in a mall sipping my cup of coffee and right there on a table close enough to me, there were three young ladies.......and seems they are quite modernised...guesssing with the kind of the clothes ..... :-) well, one of them was rite in front of my eyes and she was wearing sth which has surpassed the definition of low rise in the sitting posture ..... :D....prompted by the invitation I started looking at the gal (:D) and well within a few moments she moved away...I dont know why the hell, if you are deliberately wearing it you should also face the consequences.....