Thursday, September 28, 2006

Many a times it so happens tat u wonder why so? Recently I met the gf of one of my frnds and as I was getting ready to leave my house to meet them, one of my frnds asked me where I was up to. I told him abt tat the gf of my frnd is here and my frnd wants me to meet her. He then promptly asked me as to why was I supposed to meet her. Don't know y but both of us thought tat the guy wanted to know abt my opinion abt his choice. The next day it really happened as the guy asked me abt my opinion regarding his gf. I really wonder as to why ppl do such things? R only guys doing these or gals also succumb to these? Probably at times ppl r not sure abt the decisions they have made in the life and want reconciliation frm others.... Anyway wat I was wondering abt is: does my opinion matter or will I disclose my personal opinion abt my frnds gf in one meeting to him even knowing tat the guy is going to marry her? Shd we really ask for an opinion frm others abt topics which are so close to one's heart (and far away frm the brain)? I mean will the guy change his opinion if I say sth adverse? Or if I praise her....how is it going to affect her? Also, how can u have an opinion in one meeting and if u have one will it really be trustworthy?

2 comments:

Arun Gopalan said...

Dont think so much. Simply ask him back why does your opinion matter?

btw, I am coming back into the blogging scenario

http://lostandconfusednerd.blogspot.com

Arun

abnegator said...

haha.. who was this guy? abhishek noida?