Have you ever wondered as to why people(S) consider some people close(C) and some not close? Well there may be a numerous reasons. Just one of these reasons is the fact that these ppl don't confront their ideas....or may be C just hear the ideas of S and keep silent or just support these ideas....
But, someday if these C comeup with some ideas which is totally against the ideas of S then the scene changes, well not always but sometimes it surely changes.....
Many a time ppl tend to think that what ever decision or idea one has is the best for the scenario and only those who are in that scenario can only give some ideas which will be worth giving a thought. If somebody who does not belong to the scenario comes up with an idea then it is not worth just because of the fact that they are not aware of the ground realities.
Y is it tat everybdy is compared with same rules? There may be certain persons/brains which may be able to comprehend the ground realities even without actually coming across the scenarios.....There may be ppl who can live life in the 5-star suits and think of the problems of the poors who has no where to live.....May be ppl can gather different amount of information from a simple book or a simple story!!!
Friday, December 28, 2007
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Mumbai - An observation
I recently moved to Mumbai - the financial capital of India. I had always wished not to come to this place for job purpose as I always percieved the city to be filled with chaos and a city not as per my taste. I don't know if the city is as per my taste or not but I think my notions abt the city has mellowed down a bit at least.
Well, I came here and had been to Pune twice till now to meet friends. The views near lonavala and Khandala from Train is hooha....its really picturesque...waterfalls, lush green mountains...wow its awesome.
An interesting feature which I saw on my both trip while coming back is the presence of pros on the Pune-Mumbai highway. Well, probably near Panvel, on my first trip, while peeping out of the window I saw a gal, coming out of the bushes and as far as I can collect in the passing glimpse, the girl was dressed in quite a manner which to me appeared as fitting for a pro.......well I mentioned the incident to a frnd and the guy told tat may be the gal was a general gal having a taste for haute couture and I am just making too many assumptions. I said ok, may be. Well the next trip put all the speculations to rest. Almost at the same place, I saw another gal dressed in skimpy clothes and talking to a man. As I had my experience of the last trip, I was deliberately looking out of the window and when I saw the gal, I kept on looking at her for a while. What I saw was quite unbelievable and I still think if I saw it correct or not. Well, the bus was passing by on its speed and the gal talking to the man was wearing a mini skirt and lo, the gal took the skirt fully up in a flash and one wonder gave way to another when as far as I cud see through these weaking eyes is tat there was nothing beneath. The bus passed by and I turned and tried to had another look but the bus was speeding and it just vanished.
It seems the business is available at large in this area. The govt may be claiming anything and everything but I can not deny wat I saw.
Well, I came here and had been to Pune twice till now to meet friends. The views near lonavala and Khandala from Train is hooha....its really picturesque...waterfalls, lush green mountains...wow its awesome.
An interesting feature which I saw on my both trip while coming back is the presence of pros on the Pune-Mumbai highway. Well, probably near Panvel, on my first trip, while peeping out of the window I saw a gal, coming out of the bushes and as far as I can collect in the passing glimpse, the girl was dressed in quite a manner which to me appeared as fitting for a pro.......well I mentioned the incident to a frnd and the guy told tat may be the gal was a general gal having a taste for haute couture and I am just making too many assumptions. I said ok, may be. Well the next trip put all the speculations to rest. Almost at the same place, I saw another gal dressed in skimpy clothes and talking to a man. As I had my experience of the last trip, I was deliberately looking out of the window and when I saw the gal, I kept on looking at her for a while. What I saw was quite unbelievable and I still think if I saw it correct or not. Well, the bus was passing by on its speed and the gal talking to the man was wearing a mini skirt and lo, the gal took the skirt fully up in a flash and one wonder gave way to another when as far as I cud see through these weaking eyes is tat there was nothing beneath. The bus passed by and I turned and tried to had another look but the bus was speeding and it just vanished.
It seems the business is available at large in this area. The govt may be claiming anything and everything but I can not deny wat I saw.
Sunday, April 15, 2007
Wearing leather boots in India
Well, I am not talking abt the whole of India but wearing these leather high heeled boots by gorgeous ladies in and around Delhi makes really a scene to watch out for.... As far as I understand these high leather boots makes sense in cold countries and definitely on ramps... In India, I think the gals wearing these definitely make a statement, whether right or wrong, good or bad is upto the all important audience. For sure, it is not being worn to thwart the cold but I think it definitely adds to the beauty of these front row models.. just one of those illogical thoughts of mine :-))
Pretend
Ever wondered that when you think that u will never do something......circumstances change and you are forced to do the same thing...sometimes I wonder if you yourself knowingly or unknowingly change the circumstances in a way so tat u r forced to do things u didn't want to do or is it just a matter of chance........there may be ppl in world who would say that this is the power of the unseen and most powerful who is making this happen and making u realise his/her being.......
Sometimes it happen tat ppl tend to behave in a very weird manner and you think how can this be? Sometime ppl show that they are doing something because of certain reasons but the real reasons are something else.......and ppl tend to hide those reasons because of watever reasons...may be they think tat those reasons will portray them in wrong shades.... dont know if wat I am talking makes sense or not but... well say a guy says tat he doesn't like to eat in restaurants and likes eating in dhabas...likes to eat pizzaz in parties and says he doesn't like to eat outside bcoz it doesn't suit it, I doubt if this can be true. What seems to be the underlying truth is tat the guy is concerned about the cost of eating in restaurants..may be!!
Well, ppl say tat they don't expect anything frm life but sometime it so happens tat they expect a lot and to just satisfy themselves frm feeling bad or getting disheartened they tend to tell themselves tat they dont expect anything... Also, ppl may say tat they dont have any goals but it may be the truth tat they have very high goals and they fear tat they will never be able to achieve it...to hide frm this fact and to not face the defeat and the feeling of humiliation ppl tend to hide themselves under illogical notions and false pretentions....
Sometimes it happen tat ppl tend to behave in a very weird manner and you think how can this be? Sometime ppl show that they are doing something because of certain reasons but the real reasons are something else.......and ppl tend to hide those reasons because of watever reasons...may be they think tat those reasons will portray them in wrong shades.... dont know if wat I am talking makes sense or not but... well say a guy says tat he doesn't like to eat in restaurants and likes eating in dhabas...likes to eat pizzaz in parties and says he doesn't like to eat outside bcoz it doesn't suit it, I doubt if this can be true. What seems to be the underlying truth is tat the guy is concerned about the cost of eating in restaurants..may be!!
Well, ppl say tat they don't expect anything frm life but sometime it so happens tat they expect a lot and to just satisfy themselves frm feeling bad or getting disheartened they tend to tell themselves tat they dont expect anything... Also, ppl may say tat they dont have any goals but it may be the truth tat they have very high goals and they fear tat they will never be able to achieve it...to hide frm this fact and to not face the defeat and the feeling of humiliation ppl tend to hide themselves under illogical notions and false pretentions....
Saturday, February 03, 2007
????
I am one of those who like to waste time on orkut wandering here and there....watching the scraps, photos etc etc of others.....I believe there must be a lot of ppl like me.....
Some time I wonder y do I do so? No answers to that....
I remember when I was back in my school days, I used to sit in veranda and watch ppl, trucks buses pass on the road.....dont know what I used to feel (if I felt anything)
Some ppl, I think, think that I am quite a rude and boring person....which is true to a greater extent....but cant do much about it....or probably I dont want to do anything about it...
If I look back at my life, I find so many things have happened...wide varieties.....but what are those that I really wanted to happen......there are a few.....what about the future...........dont know where will it go.....no plans....no ambitions......no aspirations.......like a log of wood caught in the flood.....
why do ppl weep? sometimes to show others....sometimes bcoz of habit......sometime to attract attention.....sometime bcoz of helplessness, a feeling of cant do anything....there may be other reasons.....
Is it better to always ask for opinions or should you go ahead with your thoughts? well, to begin with you need some others to guide you in forming opinions...oncce reached tat level, u should start forming your opinions and critically review it and get some second thoughts about your views.....maybe you will get to refine your ideas....but this will eventually lead you to a place where others will consult you for their problems as you will have a clear understanding and a critique view towards taking decisions....
Some time I wonder y do I do so? No answers to that....
I remember when I was back in my school days, I used to sit in veranda and watch ppl, trucks buses pass on the road.....dont know what I used to feel (if I felt anything)
Some ppl, I think, think that I am quite a rude and boring person....which is true to a greater extent....but cant do much about it....or probably I dont want to do anything about it...
If I look back at my life, I find so many things have happened...wide varieties.....but what are those that I really wanted to happen......there are a few.....what about the future...........dont know where will it go.....no plans....no ambitions......no aspirations.......like a log of wood caught in the flood.....
why do ppl weep? sometimes to show others....sometimes bcoz of habit......sometime to attract attention.....sometime bcoz of helplessness, a feeling of cant do anything....there may be other reasons.....
Is it better to always ask for opinions or should you go ahead with your thoughts? well, to begin with you need some others to guide you in forming opinions...oncce reached tat level, u should start forming your opinions and critically review it and get some second thoughts about your views.....maybe you will get to refine your ideas....but this will eventually lead you to a place where others will consult you for their problems as you will have a clear understanding and a critique view towards taking decisions....
Wednesday, January 31, 2007
low rise waists
Recently I was sitting in a mall sipping my cup of coffee and right there on a table close enough to me, there were three young ladies.......and seems they are quite modernised...guesssing with the kind of the clothes ..... :-) well, one of them was rite in front of my eyes and she was wearing sth which has surpassed the definition of low rise in the sitting posture ..... :D....prompted by the invitation I started looking at the gal (:D) and well within a few moments she moved away...I dont know why the hell, if you are deliberately wearing it you should also face the consequences.....
Thursday, December 21, 2006
Many a times u hear a lot of things frm other ppl, read a hell lot of things. But you dont tend to believe all these. U feel a sense of suspicion or may even turn this down at all. But, the time u hear sth which is as per ur feeling or ur belief, u immediately tend to believe the so called "Fact". Even u may have a doubt deep within but u tend to kill this doubt urself and just go ahead and grab the thing in ur favour.
This thing is not only in personal perspective, even the biggest rumours are bcoz of this only. Just watch the ppl believe all sorts of nonsense when the scenario is tense within a locality and there is a chance of riots. In any place where ppl tend to have fear/doubt, there are rumours...be it stock market, be it the breeding ground for riots or be it a love story .....
Well it seems I have started to write quite boring things and issues......
I recently went to a marriage and met someone whom I think am seeing after probably 7-7.5 yrs ( I m specifically using "seeing" as prior to 7.5 yrs also, I think I dont remember talking to her...wat a pity aint it? :D) ..I dont even know whether the gal recognised me or not.....probably a bit when I wished her...
Well as always the bride and the groom were looking pretty....
After the dinner and all tat, when I returned back I thought why is it tat during marriage the Two most important ppl are not their self. Most of the time they keep their mouth shut ....especially the bride...the groom may try to start feeling comfortable among the known ones but the bride it seems feels really out of the place ....may be she is asked to keep quiet by the family ppl or may be sth else....
This thing is not only in personal perspective, even the biggest rumours are bcoz of this only. Just watch the ppl believe all sorts of nonsense when the scenario is tense within a locality and there is a chance of riots. In any place where ppl tend to have fear/doubt, there are rumours...be it stock market, be it the breeding ground for riots or be it a love story .....
Well it seems I have started to write quite boring things and issues......
I recently went to a marriage and met someone whom I think am seeing after probably 7-7.5 yrs ( I m specifically using "seeing" as prior to 7.5 yrs also, I think I dont remember talking to her...wat a pity aint it? :D) ..I dont even know whether the gal recognised me or not.....probably a bit when I wished her...
Well as always the bride and the groom were looking pretty....
After the dinner and all tat, when I returned back I thought why is it tat during marriage the Two most important ppl are not their self. Most of the time they keep their mouth shut ....especially the bride...the groom may try to start feeling comfortable among the known ones but the bride it seems feels really out of the place ....may be she is asked to keep quiet by the family ppl or may be sth else....
Monday, December 18, 2006
weird ......the usual me
when u r bound to act in a particular way, it seems u always tend to act tat way......whether it hurts u or not is subsidiary. Frnds tend to take care of you so much that they see that you are hurting yourself but you can take care of urself even after hurting the self. It seems ppl need to understand tat ppl tend to outgrow their age their image as and when the need arrives. May be the person is not experienced enough to act in a rational way but sometime acting rational is nothing more than being inhuman.
Can anybdy feel the pleasure after hurting somebdy? I say y not. If the person has sufficiently compelling reason to hurt the person, then the pain generated will be an amusement also.
What will you do if you plant a small tree right in front of your door and one day it grows so big that it starts blocking your door and becomes threatening for your home? Will you make adjustment for the plant which u nourished with care or will you bring it down in favour of your home?
Sometime u r party to some small incidents which make u think greatly. An output of such an instance............"Itna bhi dosti mat nibhao ki jeena mushkil ho jaye" (Don't be so bounded to the friendship that it becomes life threatening).
Can anybdy feel the pleasure after hurting somebdy? I say y not. If the person has sufficiently compelling reason to hurt the person, then the pain generated will be an amusement also.
What will you do if you plant a small tree right in front of your door and one day it grows so big that it starts blocking your door and becomes threatening for your home? Will you make adjustment for the plant which u nourished with care or will you bring it down in favour of your home?
Sometime u r party to some small incidents which make u think greatly. An output of such an instance............"Itna bhi dosti mat nibhao ki jeena mushkil ho jaye" (Don't be so bounded to the friendship that it becomes life threatening).
Sunday, November 12, 2006
Breaking into the silence
sometimes u feel as if u r not wanted anymore......in some places among some ppl
U feel tat things which were so close to u once didn't need u anymore. It seems each and everything wants u out. U tend to fear things as u may make them want more to throw you away. sometimes u read the signs on the face tat ppl and irritated and annoyed at you and you feel like keeping quiet .... quiet as in the middle of night in middle of the graveyard... u just sit there and keep on sitting watching the graves
U feel tat things which were so close to u once didn't need u anymore. It seems each and everything wants u out. U tend to fear things as u may make them want more to throw you away. sometimes u read the signs on the face tat ppl and irritated and annoyed at you and you feel like keeping quiet .... quiet as in the middle of night in middle of the graveyard... u just sit there and keep on sitting watching the graves
Tuesday, October 10, 2006
So rahe Ho?
"So rahe Ho?' ............. A line u may hav heard many times and sometimes u wonder y the fuck somebody is saying that or u r leaving and ppl will say "ja rahe ho?" or u r coming into the home and hear " aa gaye?"
U r watching cricket and hear "Match dekh rahe ho?"
or u r eating sth which is easily visible to others and they will ask "Kya kha rahe ho?"
There are a lot more.......
sometime I wonder y ppl say so....is it out of curiosity, affection, or wat?
well world is like tat only I believe.
At times, you see some old relative of urs seriously ill and relatives paying visits....now the ladies in the family will show special concern towards these scenarios.....I don't know whether the ladies weep daily on seeing the old relative or not but as soon as the person passes away, the ladies will start a cry.........................I wonder y? Is it just bcoz of tradition or wat? Was this something unexpected? Is it neccessary to show to the world tat u r weeping...................ufffffff.... sometimes I feel a bit pissed off ..........don't know y but its like tat only.....its also true tat I sometime njoi these occasions giving all sorts of absurd answers to these absurd questions...:-p
U r watching cricket and hear "Match dekh rahe ho?"
or u r eating sth which is easily visible to others and they will ask "Kya kha rahe ho?"
There are a lot more.......
sometime I wonder y ppl say so....is it out of curiosity, affection, or wat?
well world is like tat only I believe.
At times, you see some old relative of urs seriously ill and relatives paying visits....now the ladies in the family will show special concern towards these scenarios.....I don't know whether the ladies weep daily on seeing the old relative or not but as soon as the person passes away, the ladies will start a cry.........................I wonder y? Is it just bcoz of tradition or wat? Was this something unexpected? Is it neccessary to show to the world tat u r weeping...................ufffffff.... sometimes I feel a bit pissed off ..........don't know y but its like tat only.....its also true tat I sometime njoi these occasions giving all sorts of absurd answers to these absurd questions...:-p
Pune trip
To be precise I went to pune on 29th and returned back on 3rd Oct. Met frnds and had a jolly gud time over there.....wahan bakchodi kar ke maza aa gaya......sahich bola dost log delhi main nautanki karne ka ab mere ko mauka hi nahi mil pata hai.....
ya same pune which is now gripped with brangelina fever. Jhakkas Iranian log dikhte hain wahan.....as per frnds they come there to study.....bole to pune main gyan darshan........poore india main khali pune hi gyan ke layak mila Iran walon ko?????
khair wahan mast incident dekhne ko mila aur main achanak socha ki what might be going on in the heads of the characters involved in the incident......well first the incident......so we visited the singhad fort and had a detailed visit over there (saalon ne khoob ghoomaya) and then we sat at one place to have lunch.....chatai laga ke mast chach aur dahi aur bajre ki rotti aur kanda bhaja.......jhakkas. Simultaneously we were audience to an incident involving two love-birds njoing there togetherness in open in full public view. Well there closeness got so close that the lady owner of the dhaba restaurnat came and told "THIK SE BAITHO NAHI TO PAKADWA DOONGI" (Brilliant dialogue delivery and mast stage to say it).......now at this moment I thought what must be going on in the heads of the two actors of the incident::::probably both of them were njoing at that moment the pleasures of life....both feeling xcited abt it (but can this xcitement be there when u are being watched by a large num of unknown prying eyes??) ...may be both feeling to take the relation to nxt level(or may be they already have taken it to tat level) ... I guess nobody will be bold nugh in the first place to do these in public and so both feeling high on tat account and getting higher....and boom the lady delivers the dialogue and probably both feel a bit awkward........a bit ashamed or hurt or angry .........................
ya same pune which is now gripped with brangelina fever. Jhakkas Iranian log dikhte hain wahan.....as per frnds they come there to study.....bole to pune main gyan darshan........poore india main khali pune hi gyan ke layak mila Iran walon ko?????
khair wahan mast incident dekhne ko mila aur main achanak socha ki what might be going on in the heads of the characters involved in the incident......well first the incident......so we visited the singhad fort and had a detailed visit over there (saalon ne khoob ghoomaya) and then we sat at one place to have lunch.....chatai laga ke mast chach aur dahi aur bajre ki rotti aur kanda bhaja.......jhakkas. Simultaneously we were audience to an incident involving two love-birds njoing there togetherness in open in full public view. Well there closeness got so close that the lady owner of the dhaba restaurnat came and told "THIK SE BAITHO NAHI TO PAKADWA DOONGI" (Brilliant dialogue delivery and mast stage to say it).......now at this moment I thought what must be going on in the heads of the two actors of the incident::::probably both of them were njoing at that moment the pleasures of life....both feeling xcited abt it (but can this xcitement be there when u are being watched by a large num of unknown prying eyes??) ...may be both feeling to take the relation to nxt level(or may be they already have taken it to tat level) ... I guess nobody will be bold nugh in the first place to do these in public and so both feeling high on tat account and getting higher....and boom the lady delivers the dialogue and probably both feel a bit awkward........a bit ashamed or hurt or angry .........................
Thursday, September 28, 2006
Many a times it so happens tat u wonder why so? Recently I met the gf of one of my frnds and as I was getting ready to leave my house to meet them, one of my frnds asked me where I was up to. I told him abt tat the gf of my frnd is here and my frnd wants me to meet her. He then promptly asked me as to why was I supposed to meet her. Don't know y but both of us thought tat the guy wanted to know abt my opinion abt his choice. The next day it really happened as the guy asked me abt my opinion regarding his gf. I really wonder as to why ppl do such things? R only guys doing these or gals also succumb to these? Probably at times ppl r not sure abt the decisions they have made in the life and want reconciliation frm others.... Anyway wat I was wondering abt is: does my opinion matter or will I disclose my personal opinion abt my frnds gf in one meeting to him even knowing tat the guy is going to marry her? Shd we really ask for an opinion frm others abt topics which are so close to one's heart (and far away frm the brain)? I mean will the guy change his opinion if I say sth adverse? Or if I praise her....how is it going to affect her? Also, how can u have an opinion in one meeting and if u have one will it really be trustworthy?
Sunday, September 17, 2006
I was having a talk with one of my frnds and he told me regarding his achievements and am really pleased with it. But, don't know why sth stuck me....he said a major change has been brought in some area and tat change is attributed to him...... thinking abt it I don't know why I thought he may be part of a grp who might have done it.........there are always ways to say things....some times humble sometimes not so humble......
Recently I was having a talk with one of the frnds and we were having the discussion abt some serious issue and the guy in a usual tone said some nice words (:D) and a gal was sitting right behind my frnd....no sooner the word left the guy's mouth, the gal turned arnd and gave a nasty look............ with gals arnd u r supposed to be behaving all nice I suppose.......U need to change a lot to accomodate.....Is this the typical behaviour of our society only or is it a worldwide phenomenon?
Recently I was having a talk with one of the frnds and we were having the discussion abt some serious issue and the guy in a usual tone said some nice words (:D) and a gal was sitting right behind my frnd....no sooner the word left the guy's mouth, the gal turned arnd and gave a nasty look............ with gals arnd u r supposed to be behaving all nice I suppose.......U need to change a lot to accomodate.....Is this the typical behaviour of our society only or is it a worldwide phenomenon?
Friday, April 14, 2006
Are employees in india getting their share?
After a long gap, ......
Well, it really is a matter of patience to put your thoughts together and put them onto the blog.
Recently, one of our colleague was asked to resign frm the company with an open threat tat he will be terminated if he doesnt put down his resignation. CAUSE: Guy asked for work!!!
U won't believe it. Nobody will ..... but the fact remains as cold as the siberia....
Well, the incident goes like....a guy frm the prestigious institute is recruited after thorough checking and after going through rigorous recruitment process. The guy joins the company and is asked to do the documentations.... the guy does it .......along way he asks for some quality work to be given to him....with a promise (which was never fulfilled) the authorities try to cajole him... the next assignment thrown his way again is documentation... the guy gets irritated and asks for work...still unwillingly he gets the work done....Once again the work he gets is the same shit and with nobody lending ears to his grievances, the guy bunks a few meetings and it gets noticed and the authorities get informed too .... a few more bunking and the authorities decide to give some gud work to him (to be completed in 2-3 weeks)and if the guy doesn't fulfill the assignments, the harsh judgement is to be decided.... however no notice gets passed to the guy...neither the work gets changed...he still is supposed to finish the documentations..... and finally within a week the authorities decide (based on wat grounds is yet to be decided) that the guy is having attitude problem and he is asked to give in the resignation or face the wrath....feeling helpless the guy puts the paper down..........
I would like to ask is it justified???? Is this the way to treat the employees??? Why the employers think themselves to be the owners of the employees? Are employees bonded labours or wat?
Well, it really is a matter of patience to put your thoughts together and put them onto the blog.
Recently, one of our colleague was asked to resign frm the company with an open threat tat he will be terminated if he doesnt put down his resignation. CAUSE: Guy asked for work!!!
U won't believe it. Nobody will ..... but the fact remains as cold as the siberia....
Well, the incident goes like....a guy frm the prestigious institute is recruited after thorough checking and after going through rigorous recruitment process. The guy joins the company and is asked to do the documentations.... the guy does it .......along way he asks for some quality work to be given to him....with a promise (which was never fulfilled) the authorities try to cajole him... the next assignment thrown his way again is documentation... the guy gets irritated and asks for work...still unwillingly he gets the work done....Once again the work he gets is the same shit and with nobody lending ears to his grievances, the guy bunks a few meetings and it gets noticed and the authorities get informed too .... a few more bunking and the authorities decide to give some gud work to him (to be completed in 2-3 weeks)and if the guy doesn't fulfill the assignments, the harsh judgement is to be decided.... however no notice gets passed to the guy...neither the work gets changed...he still is supposed to finish the documentations..... and finally within a week the authorities decide (based on wat grounds is yet to be decided) that the guy is having attitude problem and he is asked to give in the resignation or face the wrath....feeling helpless the guy puts the paper down..........
I would like to ask is it justified???? Is this the way to treat the employees??? Why the employers think themselves to be the owners of the employees? Are employees bonded labours or wat?
Thursday, September 29, 2005
An Open question
Is the dressing of the gals one of the causes of the rape?
If no, then what wud you like to say abt those who wear revealing clothes? What is the motive behind wearing such clothes? If the concerned persons are feeling proud in disclosing their assets then they shd also be ready to protect it. One should not blame others for eyeing the assets leading to subsequent incidents.....
Even the same goes with money. If u display it then robbers are bound to get attracted towards you and u may run into the risk of being robbed...
Anyway wats ur opinion??????
If no, then what wud you like to say abt those who wear revealing clothes? What is the motive behind wearing such clothes? If the concerned persons are feeling proud in disclosing their assets then they shd also be ready to protect it. One should not blame others for eyeing the assets leading to subsequent incidents.....
Even the same goes with money. If u display it then robbers are bound to get attracted towards you and u may run into the risk of being robbed...
Anyway wats ur opinion??????
Monday, August 22, 2005
Whats right?
Recently this thought striked the walls of my mind as one of my friends said about a person that "he is saying right". Now my frnd might have said it in all good faith and with utmost sincerity but how one decides the act/statement is right or wrong? May be what is right for one is wrong for other. I think it all depends on person's upbringing. What ever the person sees/is made to see in his/her childhood leads to the formation of a set of ideals/values and based on these one decides whether the act is good or bad. But, who is there to say tat the set of ideals/values is right or wrong? I think this is wat leads to serious misunderstanding between the ppl. Many a time two persons dont get along just becoz both of them are idealist about their set of values and many a time things get going just becoz one of them is rather careless abt the values. But, the other person who is so sincere about the values care whether the other person is sincere about the values or not. I think no! The ethical person is just interested in making a point and abiding by his/her principles giving a damn about other's views.
But can there be any solution to the situation where there are two idealists? I think one needs to put on others shoes, other's thoughts and then think about one's views and then only one can justify. But, how can this be done? To put it honestly it is almost impossible bcoz the whole thinking process of any person is governed by the whole lot of years one has lived till then.
I think one should put forward one's point, should try to understand other's point and then one should put forward the points based on which they should judge the issue. I think that will be far more fairer than any other discussion.
I think the post is going a bit wary but still u ppl may understand sth out of it..............
But can there be any solution to the situation where there are two idealists? I think one needs to put on others shoes, other's thoughts and then think about one's views and then only one can justify. But, how can this be done? To put it honestly it is almost impossible bcoz the whole thinking process of any person is governed by the whole lot of years one has lived till then.
I think one should put forward one's point, should try to understand other's point and then one should put forward the points based on which they should judge the issue. I think that will be far more fairer than any other discussion.
I think the post is going a bit wary but still u ppl may understand sth out of it..............
Wednesday, August 10, 2005
TESTING GOES ON
THE PERSONALITY TEST
RESULTS:::: Robot
You are 57% Rational, 14% Extroverted, 42% Brutal, and 42% Arrogant.
You are the Robot! You are characterized by your rationality. In fact, this is really ALL you are characterized by. Like a cold, heartless machine, you are so logical and unemotional that you scarcely seem human. For instance, you are very humble and don't bother thinking of your own interests, you are very gentle and lack emotion, and you are also very introverted and introspective. You may have noticed that these traits are just as applicable to your laptop as they are to a human being. In short, your personality defect is that you don't really HAVE a personality. You are one of those annoying, super-logical people that never gets upset or flustered. Unless, of course, you short circuit.
To put it less negatively:
1. You are more RATIONAL than intuitive.
2. You are more INTROVERTED than extroverted.
3. You are more GENTLE than brutal.
4. You are more HUMBLE than arrogant.
RESULTS:::: Robot
You are 57% Rational, 14% Extroverted, 42% Brutal, and 42% Arrogant.
You are the Robot! You are characterized by your rationality. In fact, this is really ALL you are characterized by. Like a cold, heartless machine, you are so logical and unemotional that you scarcely seem human. For instance, you are very humble and don't bother thinking of your own interests, you are very gentle and lack emotion, and you are also very introverted and introspective. You may have noticed that these traits are just as applicable to your laptop as they are to a human being. In short, your personality defect is that you don't really HAVE a personality. You are one of those annoying, super-logical people that never gets upset or flustered. Unless, of course, you short circuit.
To put it less negatively:
1. You are more RATIONAL than intuitive.
2. You are more INTROVERTED than extroverted.
3. You are more GENTLE than brutal.
4. You are more HUMBLE than arrogant.
Sunday, July 31, 2005
Saturday, July 09, 2005
Wat shd I call this?
A person's existence got lost in the wilderness of a city
as the noise gets lost into the silence of graveyard;
Now the person itself denies the existence
as the sword of executioner denies seeing the red
Is shahar ki chilla-po main ek insaan ka wajood yun gum ho gaya
mano qabristan ke sannate main lashon ki cheeekhen gum ho gayee ho
Ab yeh aalam hai ki us insan ko apne us wajood se is kadar inkar hai
mano jallad ki shamsheer ko laal rang se inkar ho......
Don't know why I wrote this but such thoughts have crept into my mind through this way or tat. Such incidents have cornered me and I have always tried to avoid these....... But these and many a things of my life and my thoughts have always led to a conclusion tat I am DEPRESSED or to say it more bluntly I am a SADDIST...........am I????? dont know...........
Well leaving aside these serious topics I wud like to share a few lighter ones:::::
Once, in my school days, the results were out for a math test and there was this fellow who got 99 out of 100.......gr8 performance and we all thought tat the person will be damn happy but in the recess we saw the person crying like anything..............reason being y not 100? how cud the teacher not give 100? Ya I know its gud to aim high and thrive for it but crying at 99......isnt it too much.............anyways we had a gr8 laugh tat day
Yaa last year I sat in the aeroplane for the first time.....well not greatly excited but ya thrilling during the take off..........I guess its a bit noisy in the planes too..........the sound of engines.........the clouds looked like pieces of big cottons........for the first time I saw different layers of clouds and the earth down looked like a big floor with shades of tiles in green and gray The buildings looked like tiny playing houses.........it was really interesting and cool
Recently I was talking to a gal (one of those rare moments) and one of my friends saw me and yelled "setting" implying tat it ma`y open up a new opening in my life----these guys are rally nutss....:p.....hey I do caught the changing xpressions on the face of the gal.... :D I guess she must have thought these guys r really ass***** ;-)
as the noise gets lost into the silence of graveyard;
Now the person itself denies the existence
as the sword of executioner denies seeing the red
Is shahar ki chilla-po main ek insaan ka wajood yun gum ho gaya
mano qabristan ke sannate main lashon ki cheeekhen gum ho gayee ho
Ab yeh aalam hai ki us insan ko apne us wajood se is kadar inkar hai
mano jallad ki shamsheer ko laal rang se inkar ho......
Don't know why I wrote this but such thoughts have crept into my mind through this way or tat. Such incidents have cornered me and I have always tried to avoid these....... But these and many a things of my life and my thoughts have always led to a conclusion tat I am DEPRESSED or to say it more bluntly I am a SADDIST...........am I????? dont know...........
Well leaving aside these serious topics I wud like to share a few lighter ones:::::
Once, in my school days, the results were out for a math test and there was this fellow who got 99 out of 100.......gr8 performance and we all thought tat the person will be damn happy but in the recess we saw the person crying like anything..............reason being y not 100? how cud the teacher not give 100? Ya I know its gud to aim high and thrive for it but crying at 99......isnt it too much.............anyways we had a gr8 laugh tat day
Yaa last year I sat in the aeroplane for the first time.....well not greatly excited but ya thrilling during the take off..........I guess its a bit noisy in the planes too..........the sound of engines.........the clouds looked like pieces of big cottons........for the first time I saw different layers of clouds and the earth down looked like a big floor with shades of tiles in green and gray The buildings looked like tiny playing houses.........it was really interesting and cool
Recently I was talking to a gal (one of those rare moments) and one of my friends saw me and yelled "setting" implying tat it ma`y open up a new opening in my life----these guys are rally nutss....:p.....hey I do caught the changing xpressions on the face of the gal.... :D I guess she must have thought these guys r really ass***** ;-)
Tuesday, June 28, 2005
Down the memory lane
Sometimes its really funny remembering the tits and bits of wat happened long time ago.......
Recently I was going through a blog of a teacher (http://akruti.blogspot.com) and it reminded me of something:
Well , I used to be one of those guys who was usually quiet in the classes and never sits at the front. As usual I was sitting at my favourite place near the window and watching outside the window but still listening to what was going on in the class and somehow the teacher noticed me watching out of the window and scolded me for it but she was taken aback when she asked me what she was teaching and getting the exact answer. Her face was really worth looking at the moment......
Its really awesome to catch the expressions when the persons are at the wrong foot.
Yesterday, I saw a gal who was by mistake or because of urgency, unaware of the surroundings scratched at some personal place in between the legs and was caught by these devil eyes.........the gal really felt some thing terrible as she looked at me.....:p
The incident reminded me of an incident where I felt very close to be beaten. Well, we were in college and I along with my friend was sitting at a restaurant near to the counter and there was this gal along with her grp paying her bills . Somehow I caught the sight of the gal scratching her backyard and indicated tat to my friend and there he was laughing at his wits with his hand pointing towards the gal....I really felt like laughing but also felt the danger of being bitten...
Seems the eyes follows the gals restlessly (I was complemented by one of my frnd as to how come I am yet to be beaten for staring so dangerously!!)
I must add tat these all incidents look so abnormal when the gal is concerned but its a bit ok when the guys are concerned...... I wud like to hear gals comments on this if anybdy happen to pass by this way........;-)
Recently I was going through a blog of a teacher (http://akruti.blogspot.com) and it reminded me of something:
Well , I used to be one of those guys who was usually quiet in the classes and never sits at the front. As usual I was sitting at my favourite place near the window and watching outside the window but still listening to what was going on in the class and somehow the teacher noticed me watching out of the window and scolded me for it but she was taken aback when she asked me what she was teaching and getting the exact answer. Her face was really worth looking at the moment......
Its really awesome to catch the expressions when the persons are at the wrong foot.
Yesterday, I saw a gal who was by mistake or because of urgency, unaware of the surroundings scratched at some personal place in between the legs and was caught by these devil eyes.........the gal really felt some thing terrible as she looked at me.....:p
The incident reminded me of an incident where I felt very close to be beaten. Well, we were in college and I along with my friend was sitting at a restaurant near to the counter and there was this gal along with her grp paying her bills . Somehow I caught the sight of the gal scratching her backyard and indicated tat to my friend and there he was laughing at his wits with his hand pointing towards the gal....I really felt like laughing but also felt the danger of being bitten...
Seems the eyes follows the gals restlessly (I was complemented by one of my frnd as to how come I am yet to be beaten for staring so dangerously!!)
I must add tat these all incidents look so abnormal when the gal is concerned but its a bit ok when the guys are concerned...... I wud like to hear gals comments on this if anybdy happen to pass by this way........;-)
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